Domination Phone Sex Helps Me Relax After A Hard Day Of Work

I bet you haven’t heard of phone sex since the 90s. If you’ve been alive, over 18, and horny back then, you’ve surely tried it. It used to cost a little fortune, but it was the best thing we had when it came to virtual sexual interactions. The industry was massive. According to an article in the New York Post from 2021, phone sex companies used to make up to $2 million on a Friday night. And a minute of fetish-themed phone sex used to cost up to $4. Adjusted to inflation, that would be $10. Insane. Phone sex is still a thing, and it is a lot cheaper. Or at least the phone sex line that I personally use, where I pay a bit over $1 per minute. Here’s my story!

How I Ended Up Experimenting With Phone Sex Lines

I’m the regional manager of a clothing store chain. I have over 200 women under my command. All day, I just have to boss them around and keep everyone under control. It is way more strenuous than you might think. Especially since I’m not a dominant male. I’m submissive by nature. It’s against everything inside me to order women around all day.

Something in me makes me crave being dominated by a woman. If I didn’t have this job and if the privacy wasn’t dead in our society, I would have hired a dominatrix to help me with these needs of mine. But I don’t want to be caught in the company of a sex worker. And I also don’t want to get screenshotted in a live cam sex show with one of those webcam mistresses. The solution that I found is domination phone sex. I use a burner phone for extra privacy, and I feel a lot more comfortable getting dominated by a woman who can’t see me.

What Happens In A Domination Phone Sex Experience

A big part of domination for me is verbal degradation. Phone sex is perfect for it. The platform that I use for these experiences is XXXNite. They have four types of femdom-themed phone lines.

Two of them are “BDSM Phone Sex” and “Ropes and Bondage” phone sex. These phone lines I don’t use. They’re focusing too much on JOI, and they give you tasks over the phone on what to do to yourself. I feel like it’s a bit too much. I know that some men have a CBT fetish, and they might enjoy the femdom JOI of these two hotlines. But it’s not for me. 

The other two phone lines are those that I do use. One of them is the Humiliation Sexline. This is where all hell breaks loose when it comes to verbal degradation. Not only are the operators skilled and savvy in all femdom degradation techniques. My favorite themes are SPH (small penis humiliation), cuckolding roleplay, and feargasms.

And then there’s the orgasm control phoneline, which can be so thrilling. Edging is always extra hot, and it makes the orgasm feel way more intense. When the edging is done by a mistress who talks dirty to you, the sensations are way more intense. But there is a downside to this type of domination phone sex. It takes a bit longer. And because of that, it is more expensive. I do treat myself to it once a month.

How Much Do I Pay For Adult Phone Chat

As mentioned, I use the adult phone chat services of XXXNite. They advertise as offering services that start at 65p per minute. The company is based in the UK, and they charge in pounds. But that 65p rate is a bit misleading in some cases. That’s their money they charge. Some phone operators apply an extra charge to this rate, only because you’re calling a phone sex line. Lucky for me, I live in an EU country, where the extra charges are heavily regulated. But in the USA or other non-EU countries, extra charges might apply.

Also, pay attention to the exchange rate. When you convert 65p to dollars, you’ll get a rate of a couple of cents over $1. The site also offers a prepaid option. You can buy minutes in bulk with your credit card and avoid any extra charges. I personally don’t use that option as it defies my privacy concerns. Don’t get me wrong! I don’t accuse the site of anything. It’s just my online paranoia that makes me leave as few traces as possible when experimenting with my femdom fantasies.